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Rights of Neighbors
Apart from a man's parents, children and near relatives, there
also exists a permanent association and contact between him and his neighbors.
The state of his association - be it good or otherwise has a great influence on
his life and morals. The Prophet (S.A.W.) had attached great importance to this
and has constantly urged the Ummah to pay due regard to the rights of neighbors
to the extent that he had declared good neighborliness to be part of Iman
(Faith) and an essential requisite for salvation.
Three Categories of
Neighbors
In a hadith, related by Jabir(R.A.), the Prophet (S.A.W.) is reported to have
said " Neighbors are of three kinds. Firstly, the neighbor who enjoys only one
right (and as far as rights are concerned) he is of the lowest grade. Secondly,
the one who enjoys two rights and thirdly the neighbor who enjoys three rights.
The neighbor with only one right is the Polytheist (i.e. a non-Muslim neighbor
with whom there are no family ties). The neighbor with two rights is the
neighbor who is also a Muslim (as such he has a claim as a neighbor as well as a
fellow Muslim) and the one with three rights is the neighbor who is a Muslim and
a relative - he has a claim as a neighbor, as a fellow Muslim and as a
relative".
This hadith clearly explains that the obligation to live in peace and harmony
with neighbors, as demanded in the Holy Qur’an and the Traditions, also includes
the non-Muslim neighbors. They too have a claim to our kindness and sympathy. We
treat the animals with kindness and we have been warned against ill treating
them, then what of our fellow humans - more so our neighbors. It will be
significant to note that in all Ahadith Traditions) mentioned, with regards to
the basic rights of neighbors, no distinction had been made between Muslims and
non-Muslims.
Emphasis on the Rights
of Neighbors
It is reported, on the authority of Ayesha (R.A.) and Ibn Umar (R.A.) that the
messenger of Allah (S.A.W.) said "The Angel Jibra'il (A.S.) counseled me so
frequently regarding the rights of the neighbor that I feared, he too would be
declared an heir.
This hadith shows that Angel Jibra'il (A.S.) brought commandments from Allah,
concerning the rights of the neighbor so frequently and stressed the need to be
kind and courteous to him with such force and regularity that the Holy Prophet
(S.A.W.) thought that the neighbor also will be made an heir i.e. just as
parents, children and near relatives inherit the property left by the deceased,
he thought that the neighbor, too, will be given a share in it.
Note:- The purpose of this hadith is not merely to state a fact, but rather it
is most effective way of highlighting the importance of the neighbor to the
Muslims.
Importance of good
treatment to neighbors (It is an essential condition of Iman-faith)
It is narrated by Abu Shurayh (R.A.) that the Prophet (S.A.W.) said "Whoever
believes in Allah and the final day (Day of Judgement) it is essential that he
does not harm his neighbors and whoever believes in Allah and the final Day it
is essential for him to entertain his guest with kindness and generosity and
whoever believes in Allah and the Final Day it is essential that he speak what
is good or otherwise remain silent."
Amongst other points this hadith explains that it is essential for the true
believer to be mindful of his neighbors at all times so that he does not harm
him in any way. It also gives us an idea of the value placed on the rights of
neighbors by the Holy Prophet of Islam (S.A.W.).
In another hadith related by Abu Hurairah (R.A.) the Prophet (S.A.W.) said, "By
Allah, he is not a true believer, By Allah, he is not a true believer, By Allah,
he is not a true believer (three times). He was asked 'Who?" Upon which he
replied, "The one whose neighbors do not feel secure from his mischief and evil.
The construction and manner of the hadith shows how agitated the Prophet
(S.A.W.) must have been when he said this. The essence contained in this hadith
is that the Muslim whose character is such that his neighbors expect nothing but
evil from him and they live in fear of being hurt or harmed by him, cannot be
regarded as a true and faithful believer- he doesn't deserve the title of Muslim
or Mu'min. On another occasion the Prophet (S.A.W.) is reported to have said
that such a person (whose neighbors do not feel safe on his account) shall not
go to Heaven.
Note:- In the language of Prophet hood, when special emphasis is laid on a deed,
the customary way of putting it is to say that whoever neglects it etc. is not a
true believer, and he shall not go to Heaven. It should be understood that this
does not imply that he has actually been thrown out of the fold of Islam and now
the laws of Infidelity(Kufr) will apply to him, and that in the hereafter he
will be treated as an infidel, but rather this is an emphatic way of explaining
that such a person does not possess the true spirit of Iman which is the glory
of a Muslim and is pleasing to Allah. The particular phrasing is used to lend
greater force to the matter.
In yet another hadith, related by Anas (R.A.), the Prophet (S.A.W.) said "He has
not affirmed faith in me (i.e. he is not a true follower) who eats to his
satisfaction and sleeps comfortably at night white his neighbor goes hungry -
and he is aware of it."
How astonishing that such a wide gap has occurred between these teachings and
traditions and the actual conduct of the Muslims as a whole! It is extremely
difficult for an unknowing person to believe that such, really, were the
teachings of the Holy Prophet of Islam (S.A.W.).
Nevertheless, these traditions and teachings explain clearly the importance of
good and kind treatment to neighbors and they are a clear admonition to those
who remain indifferent to the needs and difficulties of their neighbors and care
nothing for them.
Certain specific
rights of the neighbors
Mu'awiya Ibn Haidah relates that the Prophet of Allah (S.A.W.) said "The rights
of the neighbor upon you are that; If he falls ill you visit (and take care of)
him; if he dies you attend his funeral (and take part in the burial
arrangements); if he commits an evil deed, you prevent it from being known (i.e.
do not give publicity to it); if he is favored by good-fortune, you congratulate
him; if a calamity befalls him, you grieve in sympathy with him; and that you
restrain from erecting your building higher than his in such a way that the
passage of fresh air is blocked from his house (unless you obtained his consent)
and further, (you take care that) the aroma of your cooking pot does not cause
sorrow to him (and his children) except that you send some of it (the food) to
him."
The specific rights mentioned above are easily understood but the last two
require special attention:- One should be careful, while building a house (or
any building) that the walls are not so high as to cause discomfort to the
neighbors by obstructing the free flow of air into their place (or in any other
way) unless of course one has obtained prior consent of the neighbors.
Let us note that this was the teaching of The Prophet of Islam (S.A.W.) more
than fourteen hundred years ago, but we as Muslims tend to forget or rather
ignore this, and we readily accept government, municipal or council laws on the
same issue -(that the consent of neighbors should be obtained prior to any
construction)! How unmindful and indifferent we seem to be!
The other point is that one' should try his level best not to let the aroma of
one's cooking pot reach the neighbors' household - lest they are aroused by the
delicious smells and desire to eat the same while they can not afford it - this
will cause grief to them. To restrain the aroma from travelling is obviously not
easy, hence one should make it a point of sending some of the food (when a
delicious meal is cooked) to the neighbors. It is reported on the authority of
Jabir (R.A.) that Rasulullah (S.A.W.) said "Whenever gravy is cooked in anyone's
house, he should increase the broth (by adding water) and then send some to his
neighbors."
Caring for the moral
and religious status of neighbors
The foregoing sections dealt with the material welfare of neighbors - paying
regard to their needs and feelings etc., hereunder is an explanation of the
caring for their moral and religious welfare, which is also a right of the
neighbor.
On one occasion the Prophet (S.A.W.) is reported to have said "What has happened
to those, whom Allah has favored with the understanding of faith and religious
knowledge, and they do nothing by way of teaching it to, their neighbors (who
are in need of it) or creating an awareness in them? They neither give good
counsel, nor discharge the duty of enjoining what is good and lawful, and
forbidding what is bad and prohibiting. And what has happened to the uninformed
ones that they make no effort to learn from their neighbors?
By Allah it is the duty of those who possess the knowledge to impart it to their
neighbors (who are wanting in it)- through good counsel and by enjoining what is
lawful and forbidding what is prohibited. In the same manner it is the duty of t
he ignorant and uninformed to acquire the knowledge from their neighbors (who
are learned) and to take advice from them - otherwise, (if neither party does
its duty) a severe punishment will befall them in their very existence."
The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.) has thus enjoined upon the people of all localities
and regions, who possess the understanding of faith and religious knowledge, to
impart it to those living in the neighborhood and to work for their moral and
spiritual instruction and improvement. On the other hand he has charged those
who are lacking in this field to maintain a regular contact with men of faith
and knowledge so as to benefit from their company.
Unfortunately, due to the neglect of this hadith and its likes, a vast majority
of Muslims lack (are wanting in) religious knowledge and attachment to Allah and
His Messenger (S.A.W.).
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Source: THE ISLAMIC SCHOLAR